So lets handle the normal daily stuff first. I have been sitting here waiting for my call center job to come about when i realized today that why wait on one job when there could be something much better out there. I have placed five more applications today, and so now i will have some good choices, i also watched what about bob, which is by far one of the funniest movies i have seen. So that is pretty much my day today i know not that eventful really but i am looking forward to a very fulfilling weekend. Which brings me to the second part of this post.
I think i will start out with a question. The question i want to pose is this, How does one know when someone is right or wrong for them? Is it the way they feel around that person, or possibly the way they make that person feel around them? Is it the way you feel away from that person, or even the way you feel just while thinking of this person? No matter which of these feelings tells you or sometimes you may even experience all of them, no matter what it is a feeling that no one can make you decide not to feel or to stop feeling, even if they think that it is not wise or wrong for you to feel that way. Why would someone not want you to feel a strong attraction to someone you ask. Maybe it is because they like you too, and they want you to like them. Maybe it is because they feel that person is wrong for you, or you wrong for them. Maybe they like the same person and feel threatened by you. No matter the reasoning no one can decide who you like and who you feel you want to be with but you. This is why it is so important to remember that the only person who can truly decide what will make you happy is you. I don't think i can stress this enough, it is your life and so you need to make yourself happy. So many people out in this world do what they believe will make others happy, or what they believe will be socially acceptable even if it directly conflicts with their own happiness. I do believe that we should listen to other people and their opinions and use those opinions to decide what we believe will make us the happiest. However i do not think we should do what will make other people happy if it conflicts with what we want. So with that being said i want to share another story with you to illustrate this, I know this girl shes a wonderful person one of my closest friends, and she likes this boy. This boy is someone a lot of her friends including myself do not like nor do we think is a good match for her. We all think this boy is rude and not someone who deserves to be in the same room with her much less with her romantically. However she really likes this boy, and maybe she sees something that none of us do. Now you better believe all of us are giving her our own feelings on the matter. At the end of the day this person seems to do what she wants and what she believes will make her happy even if it is the opposite of what we tell her. You may look at this and think why would she do such a silly thing? However i look at her with a lot of respect for this because even though it is very true that she could possibly get really hurt and lord knows none of us support nor hope for that, but even though that is a possibility she is living her life for her. When someone lives their own life and is able to make their own decisions there is multiple things that come of this, both good and bad. She may get hurt, yes or she may very well not miss out on something that everyone else overlooked that actually makes her happy. So i hope and pray that all of you who read this take in to account one major point. At the end of everything do you want to be able to die knowing that you lived a full life and did everything you wanted to do, do you want to die thinking man i basically was an extension to someone elses life? I hope that everyone says they want to live their own life. So that is the life lesson of the day live your life to the fullest but make your own decisions. I am not saying you cannot take other peoples advice, but only take their advice when you believe it to be the best. Thanks for reading and until next time
Sam I Am OUTTIE 5,000 !!!!!
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